Q: Could you tell me about what you do to push yourself?

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A: I do my best to create a balance in all activities both related to and not related to sport. With sport, I train with the team but also allow myself other methods of training like going for a bike ride, a swim or weight training at the gym. I have found this provides benefits for body, mind and spirit.  Outside of sport I also makes sure I find time to spend with friends and family and never forget that without their words of support when things were tough or without them cheering in the stands I wouldn’t be where I am today.

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Q: What kind of activities do you do?

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A: Swimming and cycling add to my busy schedule. I have hiked in the mountains a few times with friends and that’s something I’d like to do more.

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Q: What sports did you play as a child, and how did they go?

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A: I played volleyball in junior high, but that only lasted one school year. It seemed I wasn’t too sure of what I was good at yet – that came later on in life.

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Q: Did you play any adaptive sports earlier in your life?

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A: I tried skiing with a disabled group when I was quite young. It wasn’t enjoyable for me unfortunately. I was skiing without poles and my artificial leg at the time wasn’t built for skiing so the entire experience wasn’t pleasant.

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Q: Were there any particularly hard times?

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A: There most certainly was. I was bullied in both elementary and junior high which most certainly took its toll on me during those formative years. I can recall the feeling of frustration, anger , along with plenty of tears shed and questions of ‘why me?’. However, if it wasn’t for family and friends rallying around me, I wouldn’t be the person I am today.

 

 

Q: Are they any particularly good times?

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A: I can say there are many and they outshine the bad. I’ve learned to ensure to keep my sense of humour when dealing with my disability. When I have moments where I am struggling with certain tasks - even simple ones like picking up a phone or putting my leg on, I have dubbed those days as ‘No Hand Days’. When I share that with friends and family (or even strangers), I often hear, ‘but you don’t have hands every day!’ and I reply, but today I am actually noticing it.

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Q: Do you doubt yourself now?

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A: I sure do, but the key is not letting it consume you. And that, on certain days, is easier said than done. When I get into that space I know I can reach out to family, friends, coaches or other para athletes to seek advice on how to manage the doubt. I know that going through a time of doubt is a learning experience and will add to the journey.

 

 

Q: How have support networks helped you through this?

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A: Everyone in my life has always let me know they are there for me no matter what and I ensure I take them up on that offer! So many words of support from other athletes, friends and family have been exchanged, either one on one with a group or even at breakfast a local diner. The War Amps have been with me since I was eight years old and without them I most certainly wouldn’t be where I am today.

 

 

Q: Do you think you are able as anyone else to do what you want? Are you content with what you have been able to achieve so far?

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A: do think I am able as anyone else, I just ensure to recognize and acknowledge that I do things differently. When I am participating in a new activity with others, I will tell them that my mechanics are different than theirs and may take me longer to do something. Or I may not have the same endurance to as I have an artificial leg. Everyone gets it.
I am content and am looking forward to what the future holds.

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Q: Do you have anything you would like to say to parents?

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A: Have open and honest conversations with your kids. Let them feel what they feel no matter how frustrating and potentially heart breaking it may be. I recall a conversation with my parents when I was very young and they said: You have a choice – you can either accept who you are, or not. What do you think is the better option? It was a simple question and a lot to process at a young age, but it allowed me to put things into perspective. It drove me forward. I unfortunately had seen fellow amputees struggle with their disability and it broke my heart, so I wanted to ensure I overcame the potential tough times.

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Q: Is there anything you want to say to the kids who might be reading this?

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A: Don’t be afraid to try new things, allow yourself to have fun and don’t be afraid to make mistakes. I am still learning to accept my mistakes as a 45-year old man, but I do know it’s a part of the adventure and journey. Also remember to lean on your friends and family when you need help or when you want to ask a tough question. There are so many resources available to help you.